Thursday, 18 December 2008

news update…

Updating the situation about my mother-in-law condition…

We had various developments.
First Hubby was prepared to go alone tomorrow to mainland (I would spend Christmas alone).
Then Hubby achieved to get that he would go tomorrow and then I would go on the evening of 23rd (I would spend Christmas at mainland with Hubby)
Afterwards Hubby’s sister told that she was taking their mother, since she isn’t too bad now, to her house and it wasn’t necessary for now that he/we should go.

So we are staying both at home spending Christmas and then on January he/we will go to see her and help with what will be necessary.

I understand that this was, at first, an emergency but it would be very painful to me to have to spend Christmas alone. I’ve had an experience some years ago, because of some life conditions, and I still feel the trauma of that. So all those feelings and thoughts came to my mind.

I’m happier now, but some damages were made, it’s going to be harder to get into Christmas spirit.

So, I want to THANK all of you that showed concern about me spending the Holidays alone and about my mother-in-law health.
I think it was all the good energy that was created by your thoughts and friendship that helped to resolve the situation.

I feel very privileged to have such lovely bloggers supporting me and being friends.

Thank you very much!!!



  1. Espero que todos os problemas se resolvam rapidamente e que possas passar um Natal Feliz !

    Ma chère amie, je te souhaite un Joyeux Noël !
    Que tous les souhaits les plus profonds que tu as adressés au "Petit Jésus" se réalisent rapidement !
    J'espère que tu recevras de belles surprises le jour de Noël !

    Gros bisous verts remplis d'espérance

  2. glad you will be spending x-mas with family. it really sucks spending it alone on major holidays. glad your in-law is doing well. take care.

  3. So glad she's feeling better.

    I really hope Christmas will be nice for you.

  4. I'm so glad your mother in law is better and you don't have to be alone for Christmas. Maybe you will think of something to get into the Christmas spirit. How about some music and candles?

  5. I am so relieved to hear this news. I hated the idea of you being alone.I feel sure you and your husband can find a way to get into the spirit. Putting up a tree helped us. Do you have any Christmas rituals that usually help you.

    I hope for your mother in law's continued improvement.

    And, I know exactly what you mean about feeling privileged to have such lovely blogging friends. I feel the same way about you!
    Big hugs and much love.

  6. I'm glad that your mother-in-law has a daughter that will take care of her, and that everything is well in hand. Best wishes for a speedy recovery for her!

  7. I hope you and your family have a blessed holiday season and Im glad it all worked out!

  8. Hello hun,

    I've read the news and i'm both concerned and happy to hear that your mother-in-law is feeling better after that scare. Now that I know this a little part of my heart is with you and her. Firstly i want to say KIA ORA (hello in Maori) and congratulations for the good news of X-mas and that interview below. The poem chirped me up so much you wouldn't believe too so thankyou for that also.

    I hope to hear from you soon, its been a while but i hope you havn't forgotten me lol.

    Much love
    xoxo Eelie

  9. Hey sweetheart!
    I'm so glad to hear about the new christmas arrangment! I definitely do believe it's the warm thought/prayers of all your readers that let the Universe conspire in such a way that you are comfortable and happy!
    Sending you much love!

  10. Sweetie, I'm glad all will be ok now. Now back to what you were doing...planning a bath :) Before the hecticness next week, I just would like to wish you a merry x'mas eventhough I know you're not in mood. But just know that I'll be sending you happy vibes that day my friend :)


  11. Que bom que tudo acabou bem! Imagino o stress que passou, mas ainda temos uns dias para vc conseguir entrar no clima novamente. Tenho certeza que o maridão também está mais feliz agora. Com jeitinho, tudo se resolve. Beijinhos

  12. im so sorry bout the mum's condition.. sowie...*hugs* pls be strong for me... and for "hubby"... be easy boo!

  13. I hope everything goes okay.

    Get yourself some dvd collection and watch quality movies. Time will fly by!!

  14. Yay for being able to spend Christmas with your family!

    Can't believe that time flies! It's been a year!

  15. i'm so happy to hear you won't be alone, try and enjoy your holidays to the utmost!

  16. I´m glad you dont have to spend christmas alone!
    I hope your mother in law will be better.
    My mother in law have just come home from the hospital too.

  17. Oh thank goodness. I'd HATE to think of you alone on Christmas, beautiful. Such good news that your mom-in-law is improving, too!

  18. Oh sweetie I am sorry that your hubby won't be with you for Xmas, and for your recent troubles and family illness. You are right that we all support you 100%!


  19. I'm glad you are spending it together. I hope that you will be able to cheer and more importantly that your mother in law will recover quickly!

  20. I'm so sorry to hear about your mother-in-law, but glad to hear that you are not spending Christmas alone!

    Lots of love

    A xx

  21. Girl, you're worth it!

    You will never be alone in blogland.

    Christmas can be so strange for everyone.

    I wish more health and well being to both your mamas.

  22. Espero de todo coração que tudo fique da melhor forma possível, para que vocês possam ter um Natal tranquilo!

  23. Hope she recovers back to full strength soon! And super glad to hear you won't be having christmas alone :)

  24. oh good. does a tree falling in the woods make a sound if no one is there to hear it? no. does christmas happen with no one around - no.

    i'm glad you've got someone o be with!

  25. darling im glad that you will be with hubby on christmas days,im sorry about your mother in laws is she doing my sweet?
    also please know im praying for her and your family.
    much love,

  26. Hi Seeker, I'm so glad to hear things are better and you will spend Christmas with your hubby. No one should have to be alone during the holidays. But, I do understand about not being able to get into the holiday spirit. Ever since I lost my mom 2 years ago, I struggle with it. So, I just try to remember the good times spent with her at Christmas time and it helps. Take over your thoughts and only think of the good times because the bad times just aren't worth it. I wish you and yours the best Christmas season ever and may it be filled with joy and happiness!! luv u much my friend,
    JUlian xoxo

  27. I am going to spend this xmas alone and I ain't afraid of it. It will be an experience as any other to tell and pass on someday. Next year will be better :)

    About blogging: I get and sometimes think I could/can visit much more people and say thanks to all. But I have 300 bloggers on my blogroll, it's just impossible :s It would mean I have no life! :(

    Beijo meu ♥,

    A Elite


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