Friday, 12 June 2009

TO – 06/12 - protect the others' need of escaping from us… I don’t want to be a “beige” lady…

When it comes to our closest people, we have a tendency to deny their right of being alone.
We surely understand OUR need for both togetherness and isolation, but we constantly undervalue THEIR need for privacy though amplifying their wish for loving proximity.
The thing is that we at all times wait for others to give more than we could ever give back to them.
We give tedious love. We look ahead to elevated love.
It looks normal for us only to half-believe in the words we say; still, we wait for the others' friendly words to be clear-glass and entirely accurate.
The wanders of our soul are comprehensible; if their soul happens to bend through its inner jungles, we feel hurt.
We should learn to protect the others' need of escaping from us.


I received my Vogue today… I already cross read it. But I wish I could have a way to get some foreign Vogue’s…

Am I turning a “beige” lady????

brown sandals - Zara (S/S 2009)
brown fishnets - Calzedonia
brown skirt with belt - local store
orange tank with sequins - mainland store (S/S 2005)
beige blazer - Acetato (S/S 2009)
sunglasses - mainland store
brown fringed bag - Friday's Project (S/S 2009)
wood bangles - gift from Goddaughter
amber necklace - gift from Hubby
amber cocktail ring - gift from Hubby
lipstick - Esté Lauder
perfume - Amor Amor from Cacharel


  1. @Out of mist:
    Hi ... thanks for asking ... my doggy is now jumping and running around my yard ... what makes me so happy ... and finally today antibiotics ...
    You look great with almost all colors ...;)
    ... and how right you are what you say in this post!
    Have a great weekend!

  2. I love this outfit! It is so sophisticated and chic. The beige jacket sets off the color. I love the shoes and the bag as well. The color of your top is just the right touch.

    I agree--we must learn to give others their privacy. I try to protect my "me time" with a fierce vengeance. It's only fair the I try to give others the same respect.

    Have a great weekend, my dear.

  3. Adoooooro marrom, bege e laranja juntos, o look está divino, vc tá muito chique, amei!
    Ai amiga, estou bem na medida do possível porque nos dois últimos anos até hoje estou passando por momentos super difíceis, várias perdas e doenças graves em família, uma após outra, parece até brincadeira se não fosse trágico e doloroso. O que tem me segurado é minha espiritualidade, é a prática da minha fé e acreditando sempre no poder dos meus pensamentos, sentimentos e palavras, mas que é difícil é. Mas enfim, vou vivendo...

  4. Hi Namaste, thanks for the visit, it is great to know there are people who care.
    Have a super weekend.
    Ps, snazzzi outfit!

  5. Espero que sea interesante VOGUE, tu look es muy bonito y se te ve muy bien, un saludo cariñoso de tu amigo.

  6. i agree with you 100%! With your beauty and intelligence, no one will ever come close. Let's take privacy issue to the senate! :D ahihihi :D just kidding mama. You are still the queen of beauty and fashion for me, Seeker. :)

    i love your red top the most! :D

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  7. A conjugação de cores fica-te muito bem! E o blazer é giríssimo.
    ADORO a tua mala! :)
    Enviei-te um e-mail, não sei se já viste.

  8. Muito bom, este look!Adorei sobretudo o top laranja! Dá um toque especial! Bjo e bom fim de semana! :)

  9. i need your bag!!!
    great look :)

  10. hey darling!
    I'm fine and how are you?
    thx for the nice things you sent me on facebook. i am always happy about it :)
    you look good in beige! you wear a great blazer and I am in love with your shoes!

    have a great weekend!

  11. Hi there-what a fabulous outfit very ooh la la and very chic!Thanks so much for the birthday wishes and have a great weekend!

  12. Nice poses, S!
    Loving that blazer on you!


  13. Seeker!

    This is one of my faves! So sleek and so stylish yet so modern with that electrifying orange! Wowza.

    Sorry for not popping by frequently. I am in mega stressed mode lol.

    Check FB missy. I don't want to huge a personal comment here haha.


  14. Adorei bege, marrom e laranja!
    Ficou elegante, e o laranja deu alegria!

  15. Wishing you a wonderful saturday!

    Always enjoy reading your profound posts!

    Beautiful Blessings,
    have a joyful & relaxing weekend!!!!

  16. you know what's funny? i recently bought a lot of beige clothing and accessories cause I realised how much they suit me. i love it! and you look fantastic!!!


  17. Too true very wise words, and nothing wrong with a bit of beige, you wear it well!

  18. I don't know, I'm kind of digging your beige phase!

  19. I absolutelly agree with you, my dear, about how we usually take as normal thing when we want to be alone and how offended we are when our closest people do not want ot talk with us, for example...I make this mistake almost every day...But I try to avoid being too importunate, the best way for me to calm down and feel happy without communication is to read a book, listen to music or blogging and watch others blogs(this is also communication by the way, but more quiet:)
    By the way, you look perfect in beige! I think it is one of the most comfortable and beautiful color for summer! Or at least for warm weather...I really love the whole style and especially your bag and bracelets!

  20. So true what you say. I hope things are fine.

    You look so good!

  21. So true what you say. I hope things are fine.

    You look so good!

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